Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Further details on Bev

I cannot promise to make daily entries into my blog as most of the time my life is pretty boring. But whenever someone asks for details about something or if something interesting happens, I will write about it as soon as possible.

Fd ask about if I shaved and the extent of my feminization so I thought that might be a place to start.

As I mentioned previously, I have been crossdressing most of my life, starting when I was about four or five. So it has always been with me. I married my high school sweetheart when we were in college and told her about my love of women’s clothing several months before our wedding. This was before internet and it’s vast amount of information. So we really knew nothing about why I dressed. In fact, I was sure that I was the only guy who did something like that. But over the years I have done a lot of research and also met hundreds of other crossdresser. I was active in a support group for many years and attended transgender events throughout the U.S. I have been on a television show talking about crossdressing and have spoken to thousand of college students in classes at several colleges over the last 15 years.

My body is shaven all of the time. I have had several laser hair removal treatments done on my face (it hasn’t worked very well and is quite expensive). Part of me would love to take hormones, but I know what it would do to my male sex drive and am not ready to give that up.

Through all of this my wife has been very supportive. For our wedding night, she gave me a nightgown to wear. She shaved my legs the first time. She has gone out with me for a night on the town a few times, but usually prefers that I go out without her. She is afraid of being seen by someone we know, thinking that they might be able to figure out who the woman was with her. That would not be good for her job.

So when I go out it is usually when I am out of town. I try to take one or two mini vacations a year where I spend the entire time as Bev; shopping, dining out, sightseeing, going to theaters or movies, and going to bars for drinks and dancing.

When I am home working (I have my office in the house) I am often dressed up in something feminine. Like today, I am wearing a flowered dress, matching bra and panty, pantyhose, and jewelry. I am wearing makeup, which I don’t usually take the time to do. But I wanted to be pretty today because of the cute dress I picked to wear. And also it is an extension of my feminine adventure of yesterday.

I was doing some light cleaning yesterday, complete with my daytime maid dress (as opposed to my French maid uniform that I wear often when cleaning). Everything went so well that I decided to get dressed up for the evening when I finished cleaning. And not wanting to waste being all dressed up in black skirt and gray sweater, I headed out to a mall for some shopping and finished up going to a movie (The Bucket List… cute movie). I woke up still feeling very feminine so I put on this nice dress. I have some laundry to do today which I can do while dressed nicely. I am planning on a spaghetti dinner tonight and will stay dressed up for when my wife comes home. She likes to come up behind me in the kitchen when I am cooking in my frilly apron and give me a hug from behind. She will tease me about how cute I look, what a great wife I am and how lucky some guy would be to have me but she is not going to give me up.

So that’s me in a nutshell. Next entry I will talk about my housecleaning tips and approach. Be sure to let me know what you think. Please feel free to link my blog to other sites.



fd said...

Thanks for answering my question. i just like to ask! If ever i ask something that is too personal, just tell me so.

slut suzy said...

i am so so envious of you being able to dress as you choose to at home.... Hmm, a mini break as myself, now there's an idea?

Iowabev said...

Thanks. I try to enjoy it as much as possible. My only wish is that my wife would take advantage more often of my gift to her. I would happily do anything she wished.