Saturday, January 10, 2009

Please allow me to vent.

If you will take a moment and read the comments posted on the bottom of the previous post you will find one there that really pissed me off! The writer, who, of course posted under the name “anonymous”, stated three things that have upset me.

First, he (I am assuming it is a guy) accused me of taking an idea he suggested and using it for my posting, that being of Darryl arranging a date for me. Second, he accused me of purposely deleting the post to hide that fact. And third, he stated that my blog, though nicely written (thanks for that handout), is totally fiction.

I started this blog just a year ago with the idea of telling about my life and adventures as a househusband to my wonderful wife, Linda. I have been most fortunate to have had a very interesting year, one that has progressed further than I ever imagined. As far as I know, it has been factual with the only liberties with the truth taken being the changing of names to protect friends and family.

I have stated several times that I have and will use photos, cartoons, and drawings that I find on the web to enhance the storyline and will give credit for those when asked and will withdraw and delete any that the owner wished me to do so. I use my photo and sometimes Linda’s photo from time to time and will let you decide which one those are (hint, if the face is obscured there might be a reason for that, like protecting identity!).

I never set out to please everyone, just to write my thoughts and feelings down and to share my experiences. I have not knowingly deceived or mislead anyone with anything I have written. What I write is what I know, feel, and have taken part in, which means that, to date, and hopefully in the future, NO FICTION. If I wanted to write fiction I would do so with the hope of being paid for it… not in a blog.

So, sorry Anonymous for writing something that you have a hard time believing. Just let me know what parts you are having a difficult time grasping as reality and I will do what I can to set you straight. If you can’t do that then you are free to bypass this blog and read the millions of other ones that are out there. I have put myself out here with my photo and location clearly shown, not hiding behind a generic name and no identity. I wish you would have done the same.

Sorry to make the rest of you read this dribble but I need to get that off my AA-cup chest. If you will forgive me I might take a few days to simmer down before continuing my Florida updates. In the mean time please take time to visit the many sites I have listed on this page as blogs I follow. They are written by great people with interesting things to say. And I believe every one of them!

Beverly

13 comments:

ritemate said...

Bev,
I’m with you all the way.
It takes a lot of courage to put your life, soul and love up for all to see (and for some to judge), and when you have done just that it must be terrible to be accused of being a fake. I fully understand that you must take some time to collect your thoughts, although I must confess to being one of those fans who come to your blog several times a day in the hope of finding a new entry. But being into chastity, the concept of having to wait isn’t to unfamiliar to me.
You have many followers, and I think you can rest assured that the vast majority of us believe you. I really hope those who think otherwise will turn to other blogs rather than offend you with rude comments.
By the way, I choose to believe that the many photos of a certain lovely lady with Her face obscured are collected from a source near you rather than from anywhere on the web. She is beautiful on the outside too!
In anticipation of the next Florida update
ritemate

Anonymous said...

I'm completely enthralled with these events! I look forward to the next post!

Sissy Shannon said...

Don't let one a-hole get you down. The rest of us can't wait to hear the rest!

Anonymous said...

I've seen and read a lot of blog out there, where I was in serious doubt about their authenticity.

Yours is not one of them. Keep it up! :-)

Eurosub

alby said...

Yes, you have many followers who admire you, support you and just live vicariously through you!!!

You are great, girl !!!!

*8hugs**

little shaun said...

Don't let one guy get to you (unless it's Roger, of course). Just keep doing what you're doing. By the way, I never thought about who might be Linda in the pics before, but if she is who I think she is, I'd be a complete sissy for her too.

gloria said...

I believe you and hope you don't let one jerk get under your skin.

M said...

Hey, screw him...you GO Girl!

Anonymous said...

Dear Linda,

I am so happy to hear that you read this blog, and that you enjoy the comments. I would love to say more, but I want to wait until the story of the Florida visit has been completed. You go Girl!

"Jnelle"

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submissive one said...

Bev,

I just discovered your blog a few days ago, and have become enthralled. I even went back to the beginning, so I'd have a handle on all the characters. Thanks for sharing your most interesting life!